Raped And Blamed
The first time I met my boyfriend now of five months I was still seeing another man. So I went over to this other mans house, his name was chris. I went over to his house to break things off with him because I trusted him not to take advantage of me, being a small women. When I told C that I didn't want to see him anymore, he laughed and said to me "well at least let me show you what your going to be missing". I told him "No, I do not want that" I screamed and I kicked and I scratched but he pinned my wrists down and covered my mouth. After this horrible experience I went home and cried for about a week, I ignored my boyfriend A for about a weeks time because I was scared and I didn't want him to know about this incident because our relationship was still young. When I saw him again after that week all traces of the incident were gone and he asked me if I cheated on him and I said yes. Simply because it was easier to me at that time then telling him the truth. And now 5 months later I told him the truth. He instantly told me I was a liar and that it was my fault for being raped because I went over to C's house to break it off. He called me a liar, but I don't know. I am not lying I even went to the police to show him I am serious. Why is he blaming me. Why is it my fault. I am so sad that he would think that. The police can't do anything for me because I had no evidence months later. I don't know what to do or how to do it. Thank you for reading my story.
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