Privacy invaded by my parents
Hi,I'm Laura and i live with both my toxic parents. One morning I found my bedroom door wide open, although i had closed it the previous night, when I went to sleep. I felt exposed. It's summer and i sleep with very few clothes on. That means my father saw me almost naked while I was asleep and vulnerable. When I confronted them, they said they needed something from my room and that I had to get up anyway.
They called me stupid for not knowing that was their house, I was their daughter, so they are entitled to do whatever they want in their house.
I know that's not rape, but i do feel sexually abused. Am i right for feeling that way or is it all in my head? Please do not judge me for still living with them, as you don't know my situation. It's not like I was offered help and I refused to take that chance and leave.....
I tried to set boundaries all my life but they became extremely violent. Now I keep my mouth shut most of the time, for my own safety. What's with all that "set boundaries" advice coming from victims who know what I'm talking about? Don't they know it's dangerous if followed blindly?
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