How the police dealt with my rape case
When the rape case against my ex boyfriend was dropped, the police said that they wouldn't be able to prove that it wasn't just a misunderstanding.
They said although I would ask him to stop each time he raped me, I hadn't kept asking throughout the experience, or said it loud enough or in a tone of voice that would help him realise he was raping me.
So according to the police it was my responsibility to make sure my rapist understood what he was doing to me.
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