His mother texted him saying “why did you get back together with her?”
I stumbled upon this site today while on google trying to find people who have dealt with what I'm dealing with.
I've been with my emotionally abusive addict boyfriend for almost a year. Recently I broke up with him because I woke up to him saying he hates me and that I'm a piece of shit. I later went to my apartment and he was already inside waiting for me. I told him I would call the police if he didn't leave. He wouldn't leave. I warned him again. Still wouldn't leave. So I called, and he still wouldn't leave.
After days of him begging for me back with promises of having changed, I finally have been seeing him again. This morning I saw that his mom had texted him saying, "why did you get back with her? Now she's going to call the cops every time she gets mad. He also made a Facebook post, "my girl called the cops on me" and publicly talked shit with everybody who commented.
I can't be crazy. This isn't my fault. Right?
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