So for two years after separating from my husband have had him following me he goes away and then returns. I recently have started a new relationship and in the past month have seen my estranged husband for the past 28 days. I have a non molestation which has been extended three times now.
I reported my husbands recent behaviour to the police and gave a statement where today I have been told that they are chance encounters. He just happens to be around when I leave home, return home, take the children out, pick the bf up from the station etc.
The thing is the estranged husband leaves 8 miles away and works in the same town he works so find it hard to believe. He has got a delivery job in my area at weekends, which is odd too.
I just do not believe that they are chance encounters and find it very hard to believe that the police choose those words. They told me to stop reporting seeing him and that I should just get on with my life with my new boyfriend. I just have to accept that he will be around and as he is not harming me then there is nothing that can be done.
Sadly let down again, not the first time in two years and know that this police force have admitted to letting me and my children down due to other incidents, it will probably be another apology written to me. But that does not stop the fear, pain and suffering.
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