My girlfriend blames me for my past sexual abuse
I am a female in year 11. When I was in year 8 a boy followed me home everyday for 2 months, come into my house and touch me in places I didn't want him to. I would fight him off to my ability but he was much stronger and one day he attempted rape. To my relief my brother knocked on my door since he could hear me crying but he was only 9 so I told him we had an argument. I didn't have the guts to tell my mother but I managed to find a way to avoid him by running home and locking everything. I only told her recently. I am a girl who likes other girls and when I told my partner she told me how stupid I am and how I could've stopped him. How I had a choice. She's blaming me and won't listen to anything i say. I don't know what to do anymore.
Thankyou for reading I just needed to get things off my chest.
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