Am I overreacting?
So, last weekend I met a guy at a bar and we got along really good. I decided to invite him over to my place after the bar. We started kissing and and touching each other, typical foreplay things. I felt his fingers down my pants and he was uncomfortably close to my butthole, which I don't like at all. I pushed his arm away, he stopped and we continued. His hands were down my pants again and I thought he is going to finger me, but his fingers went further down to my asshole and instead of pushing him away I told him no. He continued and penetrated my ass with his fingers. I pushed him away and started screaming at him. He stopped immediately and I saw that he felt bad about it. He wanted to talk about it, but I just wanted to get him out of my house. He apologized about it several times, but finally he left. I told a friend about it, but she said that I overreacted and that in the heat of things stuff like that happens. But I feel totally violated, I showed him several signs of not being comfortable with that.
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