Abused age 4
I was sexually assaulted by an uncle age 4. I didn't understand what had happened and when injuries to my vaginal area became apparent, I learned to keep quiet.
My mother became angry which further silenced me as I didn't understand what I had done.
At the age of 22 I broke down and the pain flowed out. When I addressed it (at last) with my mother again, I was met with anger and a sneer and "well, what did he do?"
Like that mattered?! He did it and the evidence was there at four years old wasn't that enough?
I was not to blame.
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