Everyday Victim Blaming

challenging institutional disbelief around domestic & sexual violence and abuse

October, 2017

I don’t know whether this was rape and I want a verdict so I can stop asking myself and trying to remember.

I really struggle to know whether what happened to me was rape or not and I find myself thinking and worrying about this a lot. I don’t want to over-exaggerate or dramatize what happened, but at the same time I feel like I want some validation. He has faced no consequences for his actions. I more »